but these impressions are very arbitrary.
i figure such people have a stronger sense of humor/are more easy going.
He seems easy-going actually, not uptight, despite his way of talking sometimes. I'm sure he has a sense of humor, but he just doesn't strike me as the teasing/joking kind.
I could see the ISTP or ENFJ. I don't see ISTJ. It just doesn't ring a bell when reading about that kind and comparing it to him.
I also know people don't fit neatly into these little categories...
Oh, and NFs like me are always talking eyes....I notice he always makes direct eye contact, but I felt he was looking at me, not into me. His eyes are friendly but not deep, whereas I have very emotive eyes.