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    I'm 20 and like this I think, excluding the socially deviant. I'm not asexual, it can seem that way though.
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    Perhaps she simply feels that sex is a private matter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hmm View Post
    Perhaps she simply feels that sex is a private matter.
    Bingo.
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    I'm not sure about all the sexual stuff, but if she feels like she's being "left behind"... you can just hang out with her. Go places. Do normal things.

    I'm a rather late-bloomer myself and occasionally I get bored and curious- having a fellow cohort helps a lot in getting myself to approach new horizons.

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    I wasn't particularly sexual at that age. I mean, I expected someday I would have sex and believed I would enjoy it (I do), but it wasn't anything like my main concern. I like some chick flicks and I liked shopping when I had fewer responsibilities. Never have been super girly or romantic, though. I'm kind of too pragmatic for either.
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    Quote Originally Posted by defragmybrain View Post
    Some friends say that things will come in time for her; which is true. But she is feeling stressed now that all her friends had 'grown up' and she hadn't. I suggested she give the whole growing up thing a try - if she doesnt like it she doesnt have to continue.
    To most of us this comes rather naturally but i don't know what to suggest for Sarah.

    Any way to type her or figure out how to help this poor girl??
    So you call her poor because she is stressed out... From your description she seems pretty strongly artistically interested (and mentally in general, perhaps). If she attributes all her energy to the activities you describe, that might be an explanation for the apparent lack of sexual drive.

    But what is her or your basic worry (as someone pointed out rightly)? That she wouldn't fit in, wouldn't become happy, or would be unaware? It's great if people find what they want, but certain things you can't force...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Colors View Post
    I'm not sure about all the sexual stuff, but if she feels like she's being "left behind"... you can just hang out with her. Go places. Do normal things.

    I'm a rather late-bloomer myself and occasionally I get bored and curious- having a fellow cohort helps a lot in getting myself to approach new horizons.
    She feels left behind sexually. Not something i can help her with, really.

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    Quote Originally Posted by defragmybrain View Post
    She feels left behind sexually. Not something i can help her with, really.
    Compared with you, I feel behind.
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