I am not very J-ey. And I'm super-sloppy. You should see ... every aspect of my life. The weird thing is that people always think that I'm really organized and uber-competent, and I always think that I'm a total wreck. How they can think I'm organized if they see my desk (or car, or table, or whatever), I do not know. It happens time and time again. I appear to be much more on top of things and organized than I am. I feel super-sloppy next to most any J-type, including other INFJs. The exception is my INTJ friend, who has the same sloppy, disorganized patterns that I do (but who also comes across as rather organized and uber-competent).