As you could probably guess from the title, I'm an XNFJ (male). Most MBTI-style tests return an ENFJ type, but I get the occasional INFJ type, and have some introverted tendencies.
By trade I'm involved in technology (a server administrator by day and a programmer by night), but I'm much more artistic by nature. Creating is what I prefer to do when I can; words and music are my specialty.
I'm head over heels for an INTP, and I was hoping to find out how to better relate to her here. Hopefully, I can give some insight into the mind of an XNFJ as well.