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    Hello, everyone.

    As you could probably guess from the title, I'm an XNFJ (male). Most MBTI-style tests return an ENFJ type, but I get the occasional INFJ type, and have some introverted tendencies.

    By trade I'm involved in technology (a server administrator by day and a programmer by night), but I'm much more artistic by nature. Creating is what I prefer to do when I can; words and music are my specialty.

    I'm head over heels for an INTP, and I was hoping to find out how to better relate to her here. Hopefully, I can give some insight into the mind of an XNFJ as well.

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    Hi Elwin, and welcome.

    Male xNFJs are always interesting to hear from, since females tend to be more represented in those categories.
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    And you're here as well.
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    Welcome, enjoy your time here.

    And good luck with Ms INTP
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elwin_Ransom View Post
    Hello, everyone.

    As you could probably guess from the title, I'm an XNFJ (male). Most MBTI-style tests return an ENFJ type, but I get the occasional INFJ type, and have some introverted tendencies.

    By trade I'm involved in technology (a server administrator by day and a programmer by night), but I'm much more artistic by nature. Creating is what I prefer to do when I can; words and music are my specialty.

    I'm head over heels for an INTP, and I was hoping to find out how to better relate to her here. Hopefully, I can give some insight into the mind of an XNFJ as well.
    Well hello there. I'm an XNFJ male. I keep switching back and forth between I and E but whatever. I can't help you much with the lady troubles though.
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    Welcome!

    Quote Originally Posted by Brendan View Post
    Well hello there. I'm an XNFJ male. I keep switching back and forth between I and E but whatever. I can't help you much with the lady troubles though.
    Let's face it - who can? Nevermind an INTP lady. It's not like we make sense at the best of times...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brendan View Post
    I can't help you much with the lady troubles though.
    I don't think he's been having too much trouble with me so far.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Varelse View Post
    I don't think he's been having too much trouble with me so far.
    The plot thickens.

    And welcome.

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    Welcome! The INTPs are pretty hot, aren't they? I know I'm smitten with mine.
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    Welcome again

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