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    Default I Hate Being an INTJ Female!!

    Is this the unluckiest personality type and gender combo there is?

    My parents thought I was insane for questioning 'received gender stereotypes' as a teen.

    I frequently get teased for 'walking around in my own little world' or 'living in my head'

    Some of my observations about the world, which seem to me to be absolutely true and obvious, are groaned at and called 'hyper-rationalist-depressing' by my friends...

    and so on.

    I have taken that damned test numerous times and INTJ classification is inescapable!

    Sometimes, it seems to me I would have a much much easier life (especially in a romantic sense) if I were an INTJ man.

    And Hello everybody, by the way

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    We're not that much better off.


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    Disclaimer: The above is my opinion and mine alone, it does not mean I cannot change my mind, nor does it guarantee that my comments are related to any deep-seated convictions. Take everything I say with a whole snowplow worth of salt and call me in the morning, if you can.

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    Thanks!

    Glad to know I'm not alone in my suffering :-)

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    But would you rather be an ENTJ woman?

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    Welcome

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    Ah, the "world" seems to distrust rational females.

    But don't turn that in on yourself - embrace and accept who you are and then you can harness the bits you like to have more of what you want (whatever that is, and whenever you work it out).

    As for INTJ men, I'd love one - but they seem to prefer other attributes in females. ENTJs aren't too bad...

    Some of my observations about the world, which seem to me to be absolutely true and obvious, are groaned at and called 'hyper-rationalist-depressing' by my friends...
    And that's a fault???????

    Anyway you sound kinda like me, so welcome!

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    Quote Originally Posted by colmena View Post
    But would you rather be an ENTJ woman?

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    Hmm, is that worse?

    I'm rather attached to my introversion. Well, I would be, wouldn't I?

    Hello!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    Welcome
    Thank you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by creativeRhino View Post
    Ah, the "world" seems to distrust rational females.

    But don't turn that in on yourself - embrace and accept who you are and then you can harness the bits you like to have more of what you want (whatever that is, and whenever you work it out).

    As for INTJ men, I'd love one - but they seem to prefer other attributes in females. ENTJs aren't too bad...



    And that's a fault???????

    Anyway you sound kinda like me, so welcome!
    Thanks!

    I'm usually attracted to hyper-rational men...but that doesn't always work out for the best

    There is a sense that INTJ is 'unfeminine' I think. I'm also in the arts, so I'm a bit of an oddball in that sense.

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    Yo. Don't hate being who you are. You are who you are for good reasons. You have much to contribute to your community whether anyone else appreciates your contributions or not.

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