It seems INTJ females tend to end up with INTJs by a large margin, followed by ISTPs and INTPs. Though they might be found attached to any type, there does seem to be a distinct pattern.
INTJ males are probably happiest with the same types, but due to the scarcity of females of our type we're generally limited to what is available, so we often end up with assorted intuitives (XNXX, particularly XNXPs) or ISFJs.
I 100%, N 88%, T 88%, J 75%
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