Yes, he does this all of the time. I have learned how to deal with it most of the time............ when he starts in on me and something I have not done "right".... I stop and let him know he now can do it himself the "right" way! Which I know he will not do because he doesn't want to, he just wanted to tell me I was doing it wrong... That shuts him up
Or if it is something he is saying about me as a person.... The next time he asks for my help with something or wants something from me... I just tell him, "well I don't think you want someone that is (fill in the blank) doing that for you or helping you." That as well seems to do the trick as he will then start backtracking.
We used to fight a lot before I realized what his type was though.... Now, I just realize he is just being him and don't take it personal.
And that's what typology is all about.
"I absorb energy like a sponge everywhere I go. It allows me to see the world and my purpose in it." Zak Bagans, Ghost Adventures (INFJ)