Hello! I am a 21 year old woman, currently studying psychology in hopes of becoming a Counselor or Social Worker. I am a ExFJ, technically I favor S by 1%. My friends think I am S because I am extremely practical and take things at face value. But, because I have quite a bit of anxiety I have a tendency to over think and plan obsessively. I am probably an S at core, but still display a lot of N characteristics.
I live in apartment with 5 other people, two INFPs, one ENTJ, one INTJ and an ISFJ. And we have a INTP friend who basically lives with us also. We have a very interesting dynamic. They all refer to me as the "alpha female" or "mom roommate." I often find myself starved for emotional connection, because none of them talk about their feelings in group settings, or ever really without direct and persistent inquiries.
I find that I identify with my Enneagram type (2w1) more than my MBTI, and I find it more helpful in understanding others. I do not know my instinctive variable? Is that what it's called? And I would love to find out what the best way to determine that it.
I am a recently realized people pleaser and I am actively trying to say "no" more often.
Oh, and one last bit. I was diagnosed with ADHD at age 8. My symptoms have changes quite a bit, but I do still experience them as an adult.
So, yeah, that's about it. I could go on quite a bit longer, but let's be real, you guys don't care that much.