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    Default INFJ comin' up :) (so you'd better get the party starteeeed)

    Hey hey !!

    You won't ever imagine that: I'm NEW here !!!
    Yeah ! Huh, well, ok ...

    So that's me. INFJ. I've always been interested in human nature, psychology and how we all work out.

    I'm a PURE INFJ ^^ Not a single doubt on any of the letters.

    Totally N; just can't remember any detail on anything. That is terrible, so much awkward moments when I meet people that recognize me, and I don't :S (lately, my brother's ex girlfriend. I have lived next door for a couple of years. So lame)


    Can't really say why I came here ... followed my feeling ^^

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    Always forward, never back!

    "I always love talking to people and hearing their story. People always have a good life story to tell ya know?"



    My blog in regular blogs

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    Welcome!

    But I have to say that my doubts of you being an INFJ are quite strong.

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    Thanks all
    @Infinite Bubble, undoubtly I'm INFJ ^^
    As I said, not a single letter is prone to confusion.

    But I'm interested in knowing what makes you think this is not my archetype.

    Can you tell me what is yours and if you're sure about it also?

    Z.

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    Welcome you mischievous ESTP you.
    Step into my metaphysical room of mirrors.
    Fear of reality creates myopic morality
    So I guess it means there is trouble until the robins come
    (from Blue Velvet)

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    Thanks again ^^

    But now I'm sad cuz I feel rejected by my own kind. Dammit ^^

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    Quote Originally Posted by zleto View Post
    Thanks again ^^

    But now I'm sad cuz I feel rejected by my own kind. Dammit ^^
    gentle hugs

    It is entirely possible you are what happens to INFJs once they fall over the edge.
    Step into my metaphysical room of mirrors.
    Fear of reality creates myopic morality
    So I guess it means there is trouble until the robins come
    (from Blue Velvet)

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    lol, "Can you give me logical details about why you think I'm ESTP? ASAP please?"

    Anyway, I know MBTI for quite a long time now, but never tested the Enneagram.

    Just did and found a 9w8. Not really surprised though, but seems like most INFJ are 4w5 and THIS quite surprised me. "THE INDIVIDUALIST" ...
    Also, seems like 4 is in FEELING, where 9 is in INSTICT.

    Strange thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zleto View Post
    Thanks all
    @Infinite Bubble, undoubtly I'm INFJ ^^
    As I said, not a single letter is prone to confusion.

    But I'm interested in knowing what makes you think this is not my archetype.

    Can you tell me what is yours and if you're sure about it also?

    Z.
    Just your general vibe... I'm guessing you typed by the dichotomies rather than cognitive functions? What makes you so certain about each letter?

    I don't know my own. Possibly an INxP. Need to do more introspection! I can generally type other people, but not myself.

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    It's "easy" for me to know my own type. There is no "question" in fact.

    Why am I Introverted?
    Easy.
    - When I feel bad, used, my first need / feeling is that I need to be alone. No matter the situation. Even more, I flee people. I always think (quite long) before I do anything. etc.
    What usually mistake people, that think I'm E, is that in communication, I can seem Etroverted. But that is also very (I). We do talk a lot about what we know. We do not talk about what we don't know. (And also, It's trained for years of work in "team management".)
    But really, the most obvious part for me is the energy. I really take it from within me, never from the outside.

    N, also, trivial for me. I'm very good at conception, I'm bad at details. In fact, I see NO detail at all. Just no . I can't even tell you the hair colour of my family. Etc. And it has been trained ...
    It seems quite hard to define at first glance (not for me though) but there are some "tests" that are great to reveal it. If you follow a training with someone that has a certification in MBTI, it will be obvious

    J is absolutely what I am. I cannot sleep if I have not planned my "tomorrow". Even in holidays, all the time. I'm a quite extreme here. I "hate" changing my plans (really bugs me) etc.

    F or T is very very often the hardest part to define. Again, no confusion possible for me. I always choose the feeling over the thinking. I recognize this is usually for all people the hardest part. I have helped all friends and family and collegues define their type and this one really is tricky.
    Essentially due to the fact that people tends to think that:
    - T has no emotion
    - If you like people, you're F
    - T has no heart and is very hard when speaks to others
    etc

    But :
    1. We all need to be T, because we work. And you cannot make decisions on your feelings. So usually, we're confused because it's hard to imagine what would be our NATURAL, out of context, decision making procedure.
    2. Some T are very very sensitive. They just make decisions logically.
    3. T can make decisions based on human respect. But he will take it as a logical element rather than a feeling that he'll follow. T's can be very close to people as they usually keep calm and make rational decisions. Can be great support when things get bad.

    What is clear for me, is that I make decision on my feelings. I remember people by the feeling I have of them. In my mind, places, people are not tagged by names, colours, shapes, but only by the feeling I have from them. Intuition is THE thing in me. Gift, ... curse ... that is not always easy. But still, Intuition is essential in how I act and what decions I make.

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