When I do try dating, I love going into ESTP mode and it can be very fun, but I'll get burnt out from it sometimes and it's not appropriate everywhere you go haha.
I also have a really hard time with STJ types because of the strictness of things which they follow, which ideas can get sometimes shut down quickly and they can be really boring at times. I try to get along with everyone I meet.
I don't know a single INFJ in real life other than me, but I am glad at least on the internet I can find some and perhaps in real life eventually when I start asking around more now. I am very introverted as it is, but I can be very talkative and love to share things I know with people whenever it pops in my head.