Typed a bunch of shit, but I've sobered & reread & deleted. So, here's what's left
I've oscillated between ENFP & INTJ, strongly intuitive, but borderline on the other traits. I'm going to test again soon (my ENFP result was recent and only via humanmetrics, so not sure about its accuracy), but I wanna work out some of the details before I pay for the longer version. It's always difficult for me to complete the test because I'm mostly ambivalent between the two answers; I've always been aware of my own personality development, so I've overthought all of the questions at some point in my life & find it difficult to choose 'the most intuitive' answer. I've spent a long time trying to recover a more pure psychological state (before years of living with an insane mother), but the progress is slow. I'm here to iron out some of this confusion re: my type to clear things up before I take another test, & hopefully it will make for a more successful go-around on this forum. On a personal note, I'd like to get some idea about what is natural personality & what is psych damage from my prior experience.
When I first tested as an INTJ, about 2+ years ago, there were a lot of qualities I identified with: complex system of thought, inability to express said system, insensitivity to the feelings of those around me (though this has changed ovewr the years), etc. but when I retested as an ENFP, it seemed there were even more accuracies. However, I don't feel this identification is as strong as many ENFP's on this forum, so before I get all chummy with one type or another, I'd like a bit more clarity.
So.....where's a noob to go?
Where's the best place on this forum to field these kinds of questions? I'm in-between two major types; I'd like to avoid chasing rabbits for an eternity before I find where I'm supposed to be.