sadly, the emoticons amuse me greatly
ok ok I'm done
People here seem nice, I hope there's room for me
So I have a question: What is the best way for an INTP to grow and improve and basically be the best person they can be? I guess I'm asking about how I can improve on my strengths, my weaknesses, and how to become more well rounded as well. I guess that means going out of my comfort zone or something like that. I'm kind of into self improvement at the moment.
Question number two: I recently began dating an ENFJ which I find to be fun but a bit tiring. I get confused when he wants me to be emotional because I dont know how to do the feels and it kind of puts me in a vulnerable position :/ And my friends say he is going to manipulate me then break my heart. What do you think?
Also, I kind of wonder why he doesn't want to date another extrovert or another feeler. ENFJs tend to be super charismatic, charming, fun to be around, and extroverted .... and surrounded by adoring fans. One of those guys that women everywhere want to date. I have a bunch of extroverted friends who bring me to parties or get togethers with them and I noticed said ENFJ guy - I just sort of wrote him off an ignored him, figuring he can and does get any woman he chooses. Later, I commented on the fact that I think we are an odd couple and he just shrugged and told me something like "I asked you out because you were the prettiest girl in the room .... and because you were the only one that didn't seem interested in me. I guess I'm a masochist or something lol. And you looked intelligent and zenned out somehow, like you didn't give a shit. I figured you needed a hug "
eh I guess I just dont know how to navigate relationships and it's kind of a problem :/