I'm in Northern California too. As are many others. We were planning a meet-up at the end of summer.
It may be a little early for you to think about this sort of thing, but I thought I would mention it.
One of my old roommates was an ISFJ. I have found that he was easy-going in general.
Some do describe him as judgemental (as you called yourself) at times, but we know he would never cause harm to another based on those judgements. A little judgementalism can keep one safe. I find I am too trusting at times.
Accept the past. Live for the present. Look forward to the future. Robot Fusion
"As our island of knowledge grows, so does the shore of our ignorance." John Wheeler
"[A] scientist looking at nonscientific problems is just as dumb as the next guy." Richard Feynman
"[P]etabytes of  data is not the same thing as understanding emergent mechanisms and structures." Jim Crutchfield