Perhaps consider training people haha. :P
I had somewhat the same difficulty when it came to social norms, but I never had too much pressure from family when it came to that.. (beyond forcing me to kiss and hug people and be polite by saying hello "aunty, or uncle", I used to hide during family gatherings and still do when it comes to distant relatives haha.) most people found me wierd including family and I could never understand why I seemed or was made out to be different though. I think that Fi or Ti primaries have a tendancy to feel this way at a young age?
What kind of nonsensical expectations were placed on you? Was your mother trying to make you into a "proper and respectful" lady so to speak?
INTJ brother, so apart from his scheming and such you both get along really well?
I definately will, I'll start with my sister and father I think.
Haha I'm actually more so just hoping that.. or atleast if I where in your shoes I'd have come up with anything to break the contract hahaha. Even as far to destroying it to show that there was none to begin with!
How can they prove it unless they kept copies? :P
Hm is that how you saw adults? Magical creatures haha.. they can seem like that at times..
I honestly thought they where all stupid and selfish.. and that I was never going to become like that.. haha.
Oh you sound like a rebel without a cause back in school. Of course the class will hate on the one who always liked a teacher haha.
Did you find that you were a slow learner at school aswell, if teaches never really explained why you had to learn what they taught?
Or a lack of that positive reinforcement?
Haha you will eventually.. and I think even then you won't be so comfortable all the time either.