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    Hello everyone, I'm glad to be here. It's been a long time since I've joined a forum, but I feel I'm in the middle of a major life shift at this point in my life, so I figured it might help to join a forum based on typology.

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    Hello Shifty
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    Shall I change my username to shifty?

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    Welcome.

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    How many INFJ doorslams have you done?

    You need to have at least three under your belt before you can post here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juice View Post
    How many INFJ doorslams have you done?

    You need to have at least three under your belt before you can post here.
    How many times have I slammed the door on someone, or how many times have I shut someone out of my life? I've slammed the door on 2 or 3 people after an argument or something, but I've never really shut anyone out completely.

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    Ah an INFJ male. Welcome shifty. I hope you enjoy the forum. It's a wonderful place .

    You must be the only INFJ who hasn't door slammed anyone in their lives.

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    Hello Shifty
    Quote Originally Posted by Juice View Post
    How many INFJ doorslams have you done?

    You need to have at least three under your belt before you can post here.

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    Now that I understand what a doorslam is, I guess I've doorslammed my father whom I haven't seen since I was 10 years old (I'm 23 now). My parents divorced when I was about 2 or 3. My mom got complete custody and moved many miles and states away from my father. This really isn't a completely conscious or intentional doorslam, it's just that I haven't made a conscious effort to contact him, nor has he made an effort to contact me. I guess on some level I'm angry that he never made the effort, and on another level I blame myself now that I'm an adult. I really just don't think I have the courage to call him. He remarried and now I have two half brothers I never met, of whom my mom found out about indirectly. He couldn't even tell me. Anyways, sorry about the rant. I guess I feel more comfortable talking about this anonymously on the internet than I do to even my girlfriend.

    P.S. sorry if this should be in the doorslam thread. I found it relevant in both places.

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