Hello out there. I've been studying MBTI for several years now, and I find it has helped me to relate to many people that I never could understand before. I strongly identify as INFJ. I came to the forum today to look for some insight into the ESTP guy I'm seeing. In some ways we are like the proverbial moth and flame (although when I say that to him, he asks me, "Who's the moth here and who's the flame?", to which I respond, "That's an excellent question," and grin at him.) We are drawn to each other and things can be full of fire and excitement and certainly passionate, but in other ways it's like we don't speak the same language at all. Is this thing totally doomed? Has anyone out there experienced an ESTP/INFJ relationship? Thanks for any tips!