I pretty much exemplify the classic INFP dreamer, and what a relief it was for me to finally understand WHY I felt, did, or think the way I did. I was shocked to learn that others felt the same way I did; up until now, I had never met another person whose thought process was anywhere near mine.
Why did I turn down a full scholarship to get married to a bum? My family exasperatingly wondered why, and looking back, I totally understand how many were concerned. I had my own unique logic. People took advantage of my calm, loving, and giving nature. :ouch: I allowed it. I support everyone that I care about to the best of my abilities (which includes my colleagues and employees). I was a total wonder to my ISTJ ex-boyfriend and current INTP sweetheart. (By the way, my INTP and I are so strikingly similar in so many ways, we both are at awe!)
There are many examples, HOWEVER I have grown up enough to know that I have strengthened my emotional ground and toughened up my weaker areas. Plus, all of my decisions turned out to be good things after all!