Hello, feel welcome to guess my type.
I'm a guy from Sweden.
Hmm, I'm not very good at english, please endure.
I did the MBTI test recently.
Wow, I got so scared! The description about my personality was incredibly accurate!
The MBTI-stuff really got all my attention, it was amazing! WOW! Time and space flew away I totally forgot to eat and sleep, my stomach tried to remind several times but I ignored it, I wanted to learn more!
After being awake for 30 hours, the amount of new information decreased, then I noticed what time it was, I started to feel sick, cause I was extremly hungry and thristy and needed to go to the bathroom a very long time ago. o_o
MBTI got me quiet hooked.
I am a very sensitive person who is very intrested in understanding other people, because I really hate to hurt people.
My friends have told me many times that I spend way too much time thinking about what has happened and what might happen, and that im always dreaming.
The thoughts that often run thru my head are: "I have a feeling that person misunderstood me. what if... I had said that instead, would the outcome be better? Did I make the wrong move? Did that person got hurt when I said that? I'll try to be more kind to that person, we meet."
I'm very shy to girls and I'm bad at formulating sentances when I talk directly to a person. I prefer to display that I like a person by being relaxed and smile at that person.
//offtopic starts here.
I recently there has been a girl who tried her best to show her intrest in me. We both practice Aikido a very "kind" Martial Art, which mainly consist of throws.
I am easily affected by other peoples emotions and when I practice with someone who is relaxed and carefree, I can relax too.
But when this girl walks up to me it becomes dead silent, I can't think up anything to say to her. (I dunno why, but it might be because I usually listen to people I don't know well.) Still the atmosphere between us is very warm, she is very cute, we just smile at each other and continue to practice the technique.
For the first 3 months, I had no problem with that, but suddenly she forced herself to say "Oh... you, have.. had your hair cut, right?". I totally sunk back into myself, (What she spoke!?, wow, did she just compliment me!?) I couldn't even look at her direction and to make it worse: the technique we practiced consisted her standing very close holding me still. It might just been a brief moment, but in my world the silence lasted forever. I couldn't think up anything to say, so I raised my head and responded with an non-existent word "Ha!" and smiled without looking into her eyes.
I spend days reflecting on this very moment. I was so suprised, she acctually spoke to me! Wow, It feels like a punch in the face would do less harm.
I couldn't think of anything to say to her... my mind always went blank everytime I saw her. It felt like everytime we practiced she tried to show her intrest, we always had a very tense atmosphere, I just became mute and tried smile. I wanted to say please relax, but I was totally unable to.
One day I decided that I couldn't live with these problems, I had to get to know her so I could make a decision. Cause we had not even told our names to each other after all this time!
Luckily there was an Aikido weekend camp, a perfect chance to get to know her, I thought. I tried my best to make contact and to get to know her. (Suddenly I spoke!) She had trouble responding, and she is always walking in a group with two of her close friends. They continued the discussion with me while the girl I was intrested in just listened. When I think back, since this weekend she has been very evasive and hasn't showed me any intrest or even said "Hi".
Now its been exactly 2 weeks since she last grasped strength to show intrest.
I dunno if she has totally lost her intrest, but I have tried to speak and ask her questions to release the very tense atmosphere we have between us. But she has only been very evasive, exactly like I was before.
Last time we practiced she was able to ask questions about the technique, we are still unable to have a relaxed atmosphere. She is either afraid or look up to me, I dunno.. everytime I open my mouth she become quiet as the grave and listen. She seems to dislike when I come to her and speak directly to her, so I think it's best I let her be alone.
Anyways, lol I really wandered of... sorry. I believe some of you can guess my personality type now. ^^;