Well my mom is an ESFJ, & she & my ISFP father have a pretty fantastic marriage.
He's a saint. God help him.
Hey, we're sweet people. As long as you don't show any signs of moral weakness, uncleanliness, or lack of tact. I have a strong fatherly instinct, though, and I let people slide after I take them to task. As much as I lay into people when they are unkind or close-minded, I also look for the best in them. I think that is where the critical aspect originates. We know the people around us are great; why aren't they acting like it?
Who wants to try a bottle of merc's "Extroversion Olive Oil?"