I am an INFJ. I usually have an opinion and want to share it with others in the hopes of enlightening them (the caring of the INFJ, lol). This can get me into hot water sometimes!
I want to be accepted by others, so, even though I have a directing style, I try to be as gentle as possible. If I think that social cohesion will be threatened, I might refrain from saying anything, unless it is unavoidable.
I enjoy so many things in life, including life itself. Even though I love so much of the material world, I can't help feeling that it is all pretty meaningless in and of itself. Giving insufficient thought to the meaning and purpose of our existence and too little regard for others just leaves me cold.
I can be arrogant and hypocritical at times, though I strive to be honest with myself and try to avoid being these things.
I welcome discussion, but I don't like it when people allow their passion to devolve into name calling or meanness to those with whom they disagree. It just isn't productive.
Informally, I am a Christian, writer, philosopher, and artist. I am married to a very clever, handsome, loving, and honourable man. We have raised one clever, talented, decent child into a clever, talented, and decent adult. We also happen to have the cutest and most intelligent dog in all of England.
I hope to make some friends here, especially INFJs!
P.S. I have always taken things too seriously, but now that I am older and hopefully wiser, I've learned to loosen up a bit (like most of my weaknesses, I'm still working on it).