I am glad to see a forum that might help bring some resolution to my male INFP typology. I am currently a missionary that will be working on producing a musical project for churches to use worldwide (sure sounds like an adventurous INFP, eh?)
I have difficulty knowing when I am overstepping my boundaries with helping others; often times I think I do more harm than good. Reality is hard to grasp and I am finding it more difficult as I approach the adult years (26). Everyone else seems to have logic and common sense...heck, I can't even tell you the directions to reach the convenient store down the road. Sometimes I wonder if being an INFP is selfish and I feel that this type is probably perceived as such.
Anyhow, it will be good to connect with some more male INFP's since I tend not to find any that I know of and I find myself drained of energy by trying to manipulate my type to fit the next person.
I need help ;D