Welcome Asia. Be careful of the forum weirdos and creeps, they will try to shackle your individualism and chain you to a wall of insecurity. Be vigilant. Beware, especially, members who make use of "cute lolz kitties" in their avatars. It means they are cannibals- figuratively, of course.
You may be wondering how Victor's reply and my own are related. Let it trouble you not, you will come to know soon enough.