I've been lurking for a while.
A few months ago I took the MBTI test and tested INFJ. Took the enneagram and came out 6w5.
Taking these tests have put me on a self-reflective journey as a mother, wife, worker (blah), student (meh), artist (?!?!). I've always wondered why I only had 2 friends all my life, felt out of place within my family, come to work and barely talk, and have all these abstract, intense emotions and thoughts, and have never really able to share them with anyone.
So I'm basically questioning a lot about myself, trying to self-improve, and it helps to be around others who seem to be doing the same and are able/willing to help.
I tend to be serious most of the time, but I have a sense of humor. It is kind of cynical and dark really, but I think it's mostly because I never knew how to deal with other folks' misunderstanding of me.