Hey all, I recently found out that I am an ISTJ. I am married to an ESTP and we have a 25month old daughter. I found this forum b/c I was searching for ways to repair/rebuild/enhance a totalled relationship. I'll go into this in a future post, but I am here looking for answers, suggestions and support. I have ruined this relationship without realizing it and now I see what I have done and I am committed to doing whatever I have to do to make our relationship better than it has ever been.