I found a thread here about female INTJs, so I joined. I keep taking these tests hoping to get a different score, but I always get INTJ. All the descriptions are freakishly accurate, so I'm moving on to the acceptance phase.
Despite everything, I managed to get married and have two children. We live in Chicago, where I work half time as a software developer and half time as a security consultant. In my free time, I take classes (welding, tai chi) and make things. Between work and kids, I don't have much free time, but I am patient.
I have never had much luck making friends with other INTJ females -- not sure why -- but I've always gotten good things from talking to them. :-)
And that's about as much as I can think of to say. TTFN.