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    Quote Originally Posted by Pseudonym_Alpha View Post
    our disagreements where based on things like, her not allowing me to wait for her, her opinion being its not fair that i do so.
    Things of that nature.
    Wait for her to do what? Is it some kind of chivalry thing? If it is, you probably shouldn't do that, INTP's don't usually care for those kind of social conventions, and they're actually offended by them in some cases. Actually, a lot of people these days feel like certain social courtesies like that are a bit backwards, so be careful.

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    it was moreso to do with me waiting for her to find out what she wants in life, because she said at the moment she doesnt know what she wants and needs time to sort it out, hence the waiting

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    i got here late, but welcome
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pseudonym_Alpha View Post
    it was moreso to do with me waiting for her to find out what she wants in life, because she said at the moment she doesnt know what she wants and needs time to sort it out, hence the waiting

    She probably really doesn't know and someone hovering over her asking her what she wants just makes her feel claustrophobic. She's not always going to be taking her emotional temperature all the time and reporting the results. She doesn't have a timeline or long-range goals or what have you. She's also probably not analyzing the state of your relationship on a daily basis. If you're still around, she likes you. If she broke up with you, it's probably because she perceived your questions as needy and constricting. I decided to stop seeing a guy for that reason once. If he'd just chilled out, I'd have liked him a lot.

    I understand that you feel like she should meet you halfway, but this kind of constant emotional questioning is absolutely draining for an INTP, and sometimes it's just not worth it to us to have to keep up with that stuff in order to make the relationship work. It's a basic incompatibility issue (I'm not saying all INTPs and all INFJs would have this problem--just individuals, perhaps.).

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    Hi there Welcome!
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    I love how everybody is saying "Welcome" to a guy who joined in September and who hasn't been on since February 11.
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    OMNi: Wisdom at the cost of Sanity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiddo View Post
    I love how everybody is saying "Welcome" to a guy who joined in September and who hasn't been on since February 11.
    Shush, let them have their fun. *boots the furry critter back to his basket*

    We've surplus Fe on this site for sure.


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    hey... i like your avatar!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiddo View Post
    I love how everybody is saying "Welcome" to a guy who joined in September and who hasn't been on since February 11.

    My net was dc'd and yeah, I missed being on here too.

    But I'm back now!!!!
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