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    Senior Member miked277's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pseudonym_Alpha View Post
    Welcome!

    Side Note:

    Is Showing copious emotion towards an INTP considered to be looking like one was clingy? because i know the particular INTP im speaking of, likes alot of space all the time, im not sure if their all like that, but i know this one is.

    My point was, is expressing that a reason for why an IxTP would find an xNFJ annoying and/or detest them?
    depends on where she is in lifes little journey

    there's a profound sense of relief w/ coming back to my computer or a book w/ a nice cup of coffee after work or much socializing. of course, after a few weeks of alone time i usually feel the need to go out and do something w/ other people. after a couple hours of that i'm satiated for another few weeks

    but really, if she really likes you and is not a complete dolt she'll meet you in the middle of what she'd consider eating into her alone time. if she is a dolt and does like you then you need a heart-to-heart type talk. if she doesn't like you and is a dolt then just find someone else. if she doesn't like you like that and isn't a dolt then just be friends.

    there, you now have a plan of action for all input

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    Quote Originally Posted by miked277 View Post
    depends on where she is in lifes little journey

    there's a profound sense of relief w/ coming back to my computer or a book w/ a nice cup of coffee after work or much socializing. of course, after a few weeks of alone time i usually feel the need to go out and do something w/ other people. after a couple hours of that i'm satiated for another few weeks

    but really, if she really likes you and is not a complete dolt she'll meet you in the middle of what she'd consider eating into her alone time. if she is a dolt and does like you then you need a heart-to-heart type talk. if she doesn't like you and is a dolt then just find someone else. if she doesn't like you like that and isn't a dolt then just be friends.

    there, you now have a plan of action for all input
    That's exactly the same as me, Mike. I love people....loooove them, but after being around them and soaking up all that human-ness, after a while a switch seems to go off, and I feel this irrisistible urge to just go home and hide for a while. Then I'm ready to go out again.

    I've also discovered this is seasonal as well. I tend to be much more hermit-like in the winter, and much more gregarious in the summer.

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