MBTI personality tests have become my new obsession.
A couple of weeks ago, I was talking to one of my friends, an ENFP with whom I get along extremely well, and we were talking about how similar we were (same taste, opinions, values, issues, parents...). And she asked me to take a Jung test. I had no idea what that was back then, and I did it in complete honesty, having no clue what the point was... And the result was 'ENFJ'. Again, I was clueless as to what it meant and what the purpose of the test was, but after further researches and explanations (on her part), I became highly addicted. I started reading about my personality first, then hers, and eventually all the other types. It really shocked me to realize how accurate the descriptions were, and how other people actually had the same behavior as I always had (and thought was the only one to do so hehe).
I never really felt comfortable with myself and my personality. Reading about the usual ENFJ flaws made me feel insecure and somehow ashamed. I almost wanted to fight who I was, as all the stupid stuff I did was thrown out to my face, and realization hit me pretty hard. I read all the articles concerning ENFJ's to get to know the different ways of evolving.
It helped me change for the better, and understand other people's behaviors and/or reactions to mine. I was able to find the boundaries I shouldn't cross, as well as a way to fully accept myself for who I was/am. I understood I didn't have to either change for other people or try to change who they were. Key word? Personal growth.
I'm sure you're bored listening to my babbling. I really am not self centered, but I wouldn't have had anything else to say, since I'm still a novice in the Typology community haha.
Plus, I completely understand why the guy I like behaves like he does now, and how he reacts to stuff I do and it helped me BIG TIME. I'm sooooo grateful towards anyone who ever wrote anything about ENFJ's, what they should improve, what their interactions with other people were, giving testimonies and real-life experiences... I spent hours reading what people had to say around here before finally deciding to be active
Anyway, my name's Melissa! Hope I'll get to know other people from various personality types and have a lot of fun!!! I usually tend to do lots of creepy jokes... lol
Oh, btw, here are my types :
Enneagram Type 2.
Magical personality : Unicorn Q=2.
Can't wait to make new friends (you guys are all amazing anyway, right???? )!!!!!!!!