I had to tell them several times, very bluntly, before they finally understood that I didn't like going out and meeting fifteen new people every other night and partying. Seriously, it was like I would tell them, "I just want to stay in," and they would think, "Hahahaha, who would want to do that? He MUST be kidding around!"
Aaah, he is one of us. Right there.
Oh and I hear you. Many people always reacted in that way about me too. Noobs.
Rule #1: Driver picks the music. Shotgun shuts his cakehole.