My husband is an ISTJ and I'm an ENFP. We have been married for 13yrs.(15yrs. total). He is trying to get his HS Diploma (GED) and he has great difficulty with reading and spelling. He needs to write an essay to get it and the ISTJ's supposed difficulty with abstarct/ambiguous thinking is obviously making this more difficult. He wants ENFP attributes and I would like some ISTJ attributes; Any Suggestions??