Yes, I learned to be more careful with how you phrase things, lest everyone get the wrong, albeit conditioned, response. Funny that it came up in this thread, actually.I hope you learned your lesson.
Oh, no worries. I was referring to work, school and other stresses. I'm a bit stretched right now I feel very snappy, which makes me mad I didn't get a chance to ask the OP to change his name as it reminds me of someone and it offends me.(Sets pt up for a flame so he won't feel left out.)
But Haight, I must ask in all seriousness, not to use the phrase cheap ass. I perfer miserly, if you don't mind.