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    Default Hi, ENFJ here!

    I'm new here, but I've been interested in this stuff for a while. Every test I've ever taken has classified me as an ENFJ, which definitely fits me to a T (no pun intended), so here I am.

    Any other ENFJ users around?

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    Hi and welcome, Theory

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    Hello and welcome! I find ENFJ's fascinating because I know so few, but I have a feeling that in RL we naturally repel each other.
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    have any proof yet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The_Liquid_Laser View Post
    Hello and welcome! I find ENFJ's fascinating because I know so few, but I have a feeling that in RL we naturally repel each other.
    Bug repellent, garlic, ENFJs. Same difference.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Hello Theory! I'm a little curious as to why Theory is your username....would be willing to tell?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Theory View Post
    I'm new here, but I've been interested in this stuff for a while. Every test I've ever taken has classified me as an ENFJ, which definitely fits me to a T (no pun intended), so here I am.

    Any other ENFJ users around?
    Hey ENFJ here. We seem to be the minority in terms of NF's around here so glad to have you aboard. Welcome.
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    Thanks for all the welcomes (and good to see another ENFJ )!

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    I'm a little curious as to why Theory is your username....would be willing to tell?
    Well, to tell you the truth, there isn't actually a huge philosophical reason behind it. I suppose it's mainly because, in general, I like dealing with theories more than regular, proven facts. They're more interesting to contemplate, because there are so many possibilities and undiscovered nuances that lie in each one. (And there's my ENFJ personality coming out again... oh well.)

    And besides all that, it's just a fun word. Call me odd, but I have a thing for words.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theory View Post
    Thanks for all the welcomes (and good to see another ENFJ )!

    Well, to tell you the truth, there isn't actually a huge philosophical reason behind it. I suppose it's mainly because, in general, I like dealing with theories more than regular, proven facts. They're more interesting to contemplate, because there are so many possibilities and undiscovered nuances that lie in each one. (And there's my ENFJ personality coming out again... oh well.)

    And besides all that, it's just a fun word. Call me odd, but I have a thing for words.
    I do too, words are very powerful things.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Theory
    Well, to tell you the truth, there isn't actually a huge philosophical reason behind it. I suppose it's mainly because, in general, I like dealing with theories more than regular, proven facts. They're more interesting to contemplate, because there are so many possibilities and undiscovered nuances that lie in each one. (And there's my ENFJ personality coming out again... oh well.)
    Well that's cool. Playing with the the possibilities of theories and the different ways that they can be applied to real situations is, indeed, fun.

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    I do too, words are very powerful things.
    Yes they are! It is very interesting how simple sounds made by our mouths can transmit our complex emotions, deepest desires, and vast array of ideas. (Though they can't do it perfectly!)
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