The ‘overconfidence’ spiel at [4:56] is maybe more Te. I sometimes seriously underestimate how long it will take me to do something, but rarely ever overestimate my ability to do things.
And this tangent she keeps going on, about how seeing inferior Se in her husband was driving her nuts because he was “reflecting her inferior processes”…..that’s seems really weird to me. If someone has the same inferior processes- that’s when I’m actually most understanding because it makes total sense to me how they could fall short. I won’t even see it as ‘falling short’ (in myself or someone else) until I’m around someone in whom it isn’t an inferior process- and then it looks like a superpower. At the most, I’ll get agitated that a blind spot me and that person share prevents us from participating in the world in a normal way (like the rest of the world got some memo that we missed out on)- but I certainly don’t get angry at the other person for it, it would just remain a bizarre “I think other people know something we don’t” feeling. What drives me nuts is when someone has an ‘inferior process’ that I can’t relate to- because I won’t understand how they’re having so much trouble with something that seems 'obvious' to me. [And as an aside- ENFP got mentioned a couple times now, and now that I think about it she does seem like a very Te heavy ENFP to me. Those Te heavy ENFPs tend to be clumsy interpersonally and a bit more bossy/aggressive than they realize.]
They both describe how the whole farcical trip was the product of mishearing [6:44], and that is something I can relate to. If I have a lot of things going on, I tend to start mixing incoming details up like crazy.