This thread is so stressful!
Seriously, any close relationship is going to (eventually) have issues because people are people--and type doesn't matter because there are no perfect people. Yeah, yeah...the issues will vary because of type and other things...but this particular discussion is like beating a dead horse. Mane's ex-wife is horrible and INFJs are defensive because we know we're not horrible. And it goes on and on and on. @Mane -- I thought you were ENTP. Just noticed the F.
We need some love around here! Why can't we give love that one more chance? (Under Pressure is an old song, but a good song and I recommend that everyone listen to it now.)
Especially some NF love. The NFs that I know (and love) in real life...well, there's just not this problem. It's more like it's us against them! Especially the STJs who are sometimes ruiners of fun. At work they're the ones who guard the budget and have to reign us in. And destroy our dreams (with their practical, no-nonsense, no-rule-bending ways)! They crush our "off-topic" tangents during meetings to keep us on time and so they can take tidy minutes. Let's be mad at them for awhile instead of each other!
(I really appreciate the STJs--someone has to do those boring things and I love them for sacrificing themselves in this way).
I forgot what I was going to say...