Let's say I need to sell you on something. I might be your spouse, kid, sibling, parent, coworker, employee.
I need to convince you of something or get you to work with me. I want us to go on a cruise; I want to sell you a car; I need you to help on a committee.
How do you want me to approach you? What annoys you? If I need to give you information, how do you want me to present it?
You can assume that I'm NT--your opposite--and that I've just been dropped on Earth. (Um, not too far from reality when you're regarding Rivercrow.... )