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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    the "quit bein a bitch" speech doesn't work halla.
    I'm not telling you to stop being a bitch; I'm telling to grow up - there's a huge difference.

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame
    I do it to myself all the time…
    Maybe you should take your own advice then?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame
    …give up.
    Let's get a few things straight:

    You don't tell me what to do. Capiche? You created this thread asking for feedback. I read it and quickly realized that someone should have sat your ass down a long time ago and clued you in on the fact that you are not the center of the universe, the world doesn't owe you a damn thing, and you will reap what you sow in this life.

    Congratulations, welcome to adulthood! You've had a long stretch of being mouthy and self- entered, and like a bad credit score - it will come back on you even after you've identified the problem and began doing the work needed to fix it. You're biggest issue at this point is that you haven't admitted to yourself what the problems
    are, or done anything constructive to remedy it. Enjoy wallowing in your historical bad choices and attitudes - they are your gift to yourself.

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame
    I'm better off keeping my tears in a bottle so I can drink them later to stave off dehydration.
    Awwww...

    Tears contain salt, and will therefore dehydrate you further.
    Bad choice, again. At least you're consistent.
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    lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    Well, I'm not impulsive. Its just that the body doesn't fucking listen to the needs of the human inhabiting it.
    That just sounds weird to me. Why isn't it impulsivity in your opinion? Do you really directly perceive body as such a separate entity? I wouldn't think so...?


    Quote Originally Posted by Halla74 View Post
    You can't program your body with morals and knowledge - that is the realm of your mind.
    Are you truly confused as to the basic nature of the human body's purpose and capabilities as it relates to receiving direction from the brain?
    Seems like a weird soup of concepts


    That varies from ESTP to ESTP, as with all other types.
    I was just referring to a negative correlation between the typical ESTP and high awareness of morality. It of course doesn't mean that an ESTP can't or doesn't want to have morals. I hope I made it more clear now


    Quote Originally Posted by Halla74 View Post
    and when you received some feedback, you simply lambasted them with more of your self-grandiose bullshit
    Or instead of lambasting, not even bothering to reply to feedback...... Yes I'm talking about you @Azure Flame :p

    I've seen the self-grandiose stuff too :p.


    Get over yourself. Until you accept responsibility for your life, and hold yourself accountable for your words and your deeds - you are not a man, you are a punk with a victim complex.
    I want to second this, that advice of "grow up" is really good. Not saying I am perfect or anything but I do think @Azure Flame would do well to truly understand what that advice means.


    The writing is on the wall - so read it, and take it to heart, and evolve. But if you can't do that, then please just shut up and stop writing about all this non-sense about you being so disconnected and helpless.
    If only your mind forgot how to control your mouth and your fingers, at least then you would have to keep this shit to yourself and not bother/bore anyone else.
    Thing is, everyone has a right to complain about their problems. This is a public psychology forum. Though sure, I do get annoyed at some of the narcissistic shit. I don't really get annoyed about the complaints on being helpless etc., though. It's just that I don't feel it's my responsibility to try and solve it for him because it wouldn't be possible anyway. So it doesn't annoy me and if it makes him feel better to vent, cool then


    Quote Originally Posted by badger055 View Post
    I'm the opposite of this. I have like a 3rd person camera that's aware of what I'm doing all the time as I'm doing it. It's very rare for me to get lost in the moment. Almost everything is calculated even if it might not look like it. I have meetings with myself where I make strategic plans and decisions.

    I would try channelling your impulses and having meetings with yourself. I don't believe in fighting against your impulses my solutions always involve more gas pedal and then somehow it works itself out. I guess if you get burned then you learn from it.
    What do you mean by more gas pedal? Can you say more about this?

    And, this is pretty cool about all your strategic plans.

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    Quote Originally Posted by valaki View Post
    What do you mean by more gas pedal? Can you say more about this?

    And, this is pretty cool about all your strategic plans.
    Just more aggression. As long as you are making moves you are opening up new branches of possibilities. If I fuck something up then sometimes I try to fuck it up even harder. Basically what charlie sheen did. Worst thing you can do is stand still and do nothing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by badger055 View Post
    Just more aggression. As long as you are making moves you are opening up new branches of possibilities. If I fuck something up then sometimes I try to fuck it up even harder. Basically what charlie sheen did. Worst thing you can do is stand still and do nothing.
    True, that. About not standing still.

    Though I believe that having some direction and awareness of how things really are does help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by valaki View Post
    True, that. About not standing still.

    Though I believe that having some direction and awareness of how things really are does help.
    I'm sorry but your sensibilities don't fit in my world. I only know how to attack.

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    Quote Originally Posted by badger055 View Post
    I'm sorry but your sensibilities don't fit in my world. I only know how to attack.
    I didn't say I was good at these "sensible" things. :P

    I'm just learning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by valaki View Post
    That just sounds weird to me. Why isn't it impulsivity in your opinion? Do you really directly perceive body as such a separate entity? I wouldn't think so...?
    what my mind says often has nothing to do with what I actually care about.

    also, Idunno what it means to "grow up." I need specifics. If anything I've been spending my life learning how to be a kid again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    what my mind says often has nothing to do with what I actually care about.
    That still sounds like impulsivity and lack of self-discipline, but it could also be to do with lacking a clear direction and awareness. Those "sensible" things that badger055 doesn't like


    also, Idunno what it means to "grow up." I need specifics. If anything I've been spending my life learning how to be a kid again.
    How do you mean that about learning to be a kid?

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    Just sounds like lack of self control to me.

    Have you tried meditation?

    I also always recommend some light Buddhist reading. For the philosophy's on life, of course. It's a great way to help steer life into your own control.
    "I don't know a perfect person.
    I only know flawed people who are still worth loving."
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