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    Default My thought process towards girls

    Beginning stages: I'm so lonely what is the point of living without a girlfriend. Proceed to go after girls like a rabid dog.
    First month: She is the greatest girlfriend ever I want her to move in with me now!
    Second month: Oh god she is too close get her away from me.
    Third month: Oh god this is so unbelievably boring I want to get rid of her like an alien parasite attached to my brain stem. Proceed to break up.

    It's like I have a 6 year relationship in 3 months.

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    Quote Originally Posted by badger055 View Post
    Beginning stages: I'm so lonely what is the point of living without a girlfriend. Proceed to go after girls like a rabid dog.
    First month: She is the greatest girlfriend ever I want her to move in with me now!
    Second month: Oh god she is too close get her away from me.
    Third month: Oh god this is so unbelievably boring I want to get rid of her like an alien parasite attached to my brain stem. Proceed to break up.

    It's like I have a 6 year relationship in 3 months.
    It's a lot like fishing. The thrill of casting out, getting a bite, reeling it in.

    But what when it's in the boat? You take a picture and put it on ice.

    Every now and then, though... that one that gets away...

    That's the one you're lookin' for.

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    And this is why a lot of girls feel the need to play hard to get

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    Quote Originally Posted by superunknown View Post
    It's a lot like fishing. The thrill of casting out, getting a bite, reeling it in.

    But what when it's in the boat? You take a picture and put it on ice.

    Every now and then, though... that one that gets away...

    That's the one you're lookin' for.
    Thrill for some. I always hated that stuff. I was mostly honest and direct without being stupid.

    Quote Originally Posted by chana View Post
    And this is why a lot of girls feel the need to play hard to get
    For good or bad, I walked away from those.

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    This is why committed relationships are pointless in general. I've heard it said many times and you can divide it however you want, but there are always several stages:

    1. Meet
    2. Fun and exciting time where attraction builds
    3. Relationship is initiated and there is a honeymoon period of fun
    4. One party gets possessive and needy, the other gets bored
    5. Break up and never be cool with each other again OR the bored person makes a rational and shrewd decision to keep the relationship anyway because they are getting older and don't want to be alone or whatever. So marriage happens.

    I never could really cope with any part of this idea. I was always overwhelmed by the notion that I was supposed to meet a complete stranger and then commit my life to this random person. I can't see it from the other person's perspective either; why would anyone want to be stuck with me? I would hardly say I am the best guy out there. Bang me, be my friend, sure, but commit to me for life? Weird.

    There's always someone better out there. That's the problem. And that's the whole reason I've avoided giving love to a lot of girls who I didn't quite think were up to a certain level of standards. I felt pressured to commit to them if I did, to define myself by them, and that wasn't going to happen--especially because I wanted to hold out for something better. If that thought weren't in my mind, sure, I would have hooked up with plenty of girls who really could have used it. It's a shame things have to be like this.

    And I think the root of it all is fear. We are afraid of being alone, so we make up these silly promises, say these flimsy words and trick ourselves into thinking we got a guarantee on a person and exclusive rights to their privates.

    Here's a similar example to how I think on the matter:

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    Quote Originally Posted by highlander View Post
    Thrill for some. I always hated that stuff. I was mostly honest and direct without being stupid.
    I am not detecting any particularly exclusive dichotomy between the two, presuming one was implied.

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    Quote Originally Posted by badger055 View Post
    Beginning stages: I'm so lonely what is the point of living without a girlfriend. Proceed to go after girls like a rabid dog.
    First month: She is the greatest girlfriend ever I want her to move in with me now!
    Second month: Oh god she is too close get her away from me.
    Third month: Oh god this is so unbelievably boring I want to get rid of her like an alien parasite attached to my brain stem. Proceed to break up.

    It's like I have a 6 year relationship in 3 months.
    LMAO this is such sx/sp way to do relationships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    LMAO this is such sx/sp way to do relationships.
    No it's not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chana View Post
    And this is why a lot of girls feel the need to play hard to get
    Yea they always do that to me. Doesn't really make a difference in the end.

    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    LMAO this is such sx/sp way to do relationships.
    Is it? I must be doomed then. I'm kind of wary to get into relationships now cause I know what's coming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by highlander View Post
    No it's not.
    Yeah it is. The Sx/sp people tend to get really attracted to someone and then become obsessed with them. They then think that they are just the best thing in the world and think that they would never want anyone else. After that they tend to pull back and tend to re-evaluate the situation. The sp/sx is just the opposite. The sp/sx tends to keep people at an arm's length and then slowly let's the other person get close to them.

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