She likes to make it confusing. According to her we're only friends. But her actions and conversation topics completely contradict that. for example, she and I were standing outside of my new apartment.
Me: Here it is
her: do you have room mates?
me: yeah, a couple, they're pretty cool
her: how will you have sex?
me: uh... where there's a will there's a way.
her: *disapproving face*
And this wasn't a one time occurrence. I'd say 90% of our conversations were these strawman sexual discussions between me and my hypothetical non-existent girlfriend, and how she's hoping her non-existent hypothetical boyfriend decides to move in with her soon, etc. lol. And then when I tell her things like, "woman, just come out and say what you mean to my face and quit hiding behind a wall" and she just flips out on me and we don't talk until she calls me up 2 months later crying telling me she's attracted to me and she's sorry she did that etc.