People are very jealous. They hate to see you having fun. Or doing what you want. TP males (I say that as one) are among the worst, I think its male competitvness + tert/inf Fe the kind of fool who will try to cock block you and then not do anything with a girl himself. I hate jealous bitchy ppl above all else, 'selfish' I can live with, because you do wtf you want, as long as you let live in peace and do what I want. Just be a man not a whiny bitch ffs.