Long story short....an ISFP i had a crush on told me she was single, so I developed serious feelings for her. When I finally confessed my feelings, she confessed to being in love with someone else and being in a serious relationship. However, she said she would date me if she was single, thinks I'm a wonderful person, is totally flattered, yada yada yada.
I assured her I was fine and we are still friends (even though she lied to me, I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt), but she doesn't seem to believe. She has texted me a few times saying she thinks I'm wonderful, have a great week, hope we can still be friends, come to dinner with me and my partner, etc..
ISFPs - do you feel really bad when you reject someone? Do you feel the need to be gracious and over assuring?