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[ESTP] Do you find ESTPs charming?

Chickadee

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Oct 13, 2012
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INFP
The one I am dating is -incredibly- charming. He just sweeps me off my feet lol I'm a bit head over heels with him. He can be a bit blunt sometimes, but he has such a good heart :) His actions speak louder than anything, and even those are completely charming. We both had a little bit of a stumble trying to read each other because we see things so differently, but we both make a great effort in understanding each other and doing things for each other that we know the other values. :wubbie: I find his effort to understand me and love me in his own way so charming too.
 

great_bay

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Jan 29, 2015
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987
MBTI Type
intp
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541
Yeah I'll be honest. Here's my two cents. I couldn't understand why ESTP's were always so popular. They always reached a demi-god status of popularity wherever they went. I didn't trust extroverted sensing since it's my 7th function. I think Myers-Brigg give my a better perspective on why they're usually well-liked by people. They are people who take a liken to extroverted sensing better than myself.

I noticed how ESTP's 8th function is Ne. Ne asks what does this mean? The 8th function is usually known as the devil function. It's a function not usually well-liked. What I see in ESTP's popularity would if an INTP got popular through Ne philosophy lectures at the school ground which would baffled ESTP's.
 

Dannik

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Dec 6, 2013
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141
MBTI Type
ISTP
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9
My instinct is to pull-Hard-away from ESTPs, to feel a very Uncomfortable and rocky edge with them.

I think that we have an EXTREMELY SIMILAR sense of SELF - in the way that we embrace our Self in the world. We should be fast friends. !!
But, from MY POINT OF VIEW, we express ourselves in a way that I find incongruous..
perhaps my massive Introversion plagues me of understanding ESTPs......
Sometimes I feel that ESTPs and ISTPs have the EXACT SAME view of reality - and we almost interpret it together, FRUSTRATINGLY CLOSE, but significantly AJAR enough to make tension.
 
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