There's a girl I work with whose type I've always wondered. Can you help me out?
I'm pretty sure she's Se dom...she's very conscious of details, likes the outdoors, doing psychical activities that require motor coordination, has very good dress sense (including dressing with a lot of colors etc)...
But then I wonder about her secondary and third functions. When I met her, she seemed very hard-working and fair, and told me how she respected me because I seemed to work a lot (lol not true). She also told me that what she wants from the job is to learn as much as possible about one topic and become a specialist in it (unlike me, for ex, I want to learn a bit about everything).
She also seems quite emotional, in a rebellious way. She's always complaining about my boss and often she will argue with him, in front of him, with no problems. Then, we had a sub-boss come, and she told me we would be a team and *fuck* the new sub-boss, if we didn't like her. So, I thought of Fi. ESFP.
BUT THEEEN.....she started liking the sub-boss and now has completely turned on me. And completely befriended the sub-boss and will bend to anything the sub-boss wants, even if it's completely different from her personality. Also, she's very aggressive and half of the time does not understand how her actions hurt me. So, I thought of Fe. ESTP.
In addition, I can tell she appreciates me when I come full force with the Te and try to "fix the problem". Which leads to understand she's not good on the Te. So that would mean she'd have Te as a third function and Fi as a second, and I'm back to ESFP.
(ps today she told me that our stereotype is I think she's aggressive, and she thinks I play the victim. oh, and she also thinks i think she's dumb....does that help?)
(ps 2. she's a sensor, definitely, but she also has more patience - and even finds it funny - when i go crazy with my Ne. she def has more patience for it than my ESFJ sub-boss. does that help? oh, and my boss boss is an ENTJ)
(ps 3. she' actually quite similar to my sister, who's an ISFJ, except my sister is super diplomatic and quiet and this girl is more expansive and more aggressive)