I'm not quite sure I understand your question, but I try not to give advice to anybody.
It's based on random observations of a friend who gives advice or put herself into the recipient's shoes as soon as a "dilemma" comes out.
i.e. My ear is bleeding, it's not normal
Friend: Inside or on the piercing......then.....it's not normal....you should see a doctor.
i.e. Just for lulz, I'm going to install a game in my relative's PC just to piss them off
Friend: ...well if they dn't know how to play it....maybe they don't understand you...you play this game for your job...