Not much of a difference. I've always been thought of as more male than some of my male co-workers. I've been described as tough and practical. I can look pretty hot in makeup and heels tho...Scares them mostly
In relationships, I'm softer than anyone would think and most people would be shocked at my behavior toward my SO. It's much different than how I interact with everyone else. They are privy to my softer side and it can be pretty mushy, not with words, but in a playful way.