I have a friend who is an ESFP. Very Fi and Se. Little to no trace of Fe and Si. The thing is, she's a major worry wort. Everything little thing makes her panic and launch into histronics. She can be really fun and light-hearted too once you redirect her focus, but her mind constantly goes back to the negative. I have never known ESFPs to be this way though. I thought they were supposed to be laid-back and carefree-ish. Is she just unhealthy?
I have tried everything I can to help her be more positive and relaxed but that usually only lasts for a few minutes. Any advice?