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    I have a female ISTP colleague at university. We had a course together and got along pretty well: same humor, went for drinks etc. The relationship between us was non-romantic, more like "female Bruce Willis" and "nerd version of Michael Corleone", so quite awesome actually.

    But after the course has finished, she didn't reply to my messages anymore. When she didn't reply to my first one, I thought maybe she's busy. But now I sent a second one asking what courses she's taking next semester - no reply.

    What do you think is going on?

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    She's just not sexually atracted with you, consider you as a simple pal. You shared a course together, the course is over, it was nice, you were nice, but now the course is part of the past, and you are too. Simple, and that has nothing to do with typology, just find another girl if you want to soak your penis.
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    That wasn't helpful at all... I already said it was non-romantic. And yes, she has a boyfriend, and I know I'm not her type. And she's not my type either. Jesus...

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    Well, it was bound to happen to an INTJ eventually

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    Like any other type, if she's ignoring you, she's either busy/lost her phone/etc or more likely, isn't interested in pursuing a friendship. Nothing personal. Or type-related.
    -end of thread-

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    Dat bitch.
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    I bet it's you.



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    Quote Originally Posted by fragrance View Post
    That wasn't helpful at all... I already said it was non-romantic. And yes, she has a boyfriend, and I know I'm not her type. And she's not my type either. Jesus...
    I'm kidding.

    She probably has other thing to do than say to a guy what she will do together. As an ISTP myself, I can hardly know what I'll do next semester because I live too much in the present, probably the same for her, then she has nothing to answer to your message. If you are really friend, you will probaly find each other again naturally. Or not.
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    OP: she could be really busy as you say, or being a flake. Either way, a sad manner to end something that was fun. I'm sorry for that.
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    Do not pressure the ISTP to talk to you. It's alright to tell her things though without looking as though you wish a reply.

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