Sorry is this is silly, but it's actually a problem I need help with.
On a good night with friends over, we like to sit back and watch/listen to some movies, TV series, anime, etc. If the people around are NFs, NTs, or SJs, it seems we can find something we agree on quite well. Such is usually the case with ISFPs, too. When it comes to ISTPs, ESTPs, and ESFPs, though, we're on. Another. Planet.
I tend to like:
-soft, emotional music which reminds me of feelings I've experienced
-stories which revolve around human relations; romance, deep friends, and the power of love
-soap opera-type dramas where the situations and relationships are actually realistic
-material which has me constantly thinking about the world around me
-I don't always need logic in the situations, since the one thing I do need is to relate to it
ESFP, ESTP, ISTP friends like:
-any music with a beat
-stories which focus on action like gunfights, martial arts, and car chases
-everything, to them has to make complete logical sense and be practical
-fast-paced, always things happening
I am not attempting to insult people. All types have their flaws and positive traits. I am just looking for some sort of understanding.
Is there, like, any way we can come to agreement at all?