I have this issue with my brother who is xSTP. I am ISFP. He likes action movies with nice fight scenes. I like movies that make you "think" (actually I relate a lot to your list of what you like). We've figured out how to compromise quite a lot though, because a lot of movies do provide both sides. I would suggest finding rare movies that appeal to all of you. I once convinced an ISFJ to watch a movie she thought she would hate, because it had good reviews and she thinks movies with good reviews are objectively good. Perhaps your friends will think that way as well. Even if it is a stupid way of thinking, you can use it to get your way. Lastly, I find that if I pressure my brother to watch a "thinking" movie with me, (so long as it's not too mushy/romantic) his Ti will latch onto it and we can discuss it for days. We spent a week and a half dissecting Inception last year. There is a lot of common ground, I hope you are able to find some with your friends. Hope this helped.