Ok I have some issues dealing with an ENFJ women who is younger then me by 5 years and works at a pool hall I frequent. Let's start from the beginning I kinda liked this ENFJ women and I expressed my self through a text because we all know a very strong ISTP does not share feelings well (well I know I don't that well). Well I was rejected instantly. I told myself that that was okay. So I have been going there for about four months after that and I also play on a team there. Ever so slowly her affections have grown a little each time I see her. Well at first it started out as hey how ya doing, then to give me a hug. Then from give me a hug to give me a kiss on the cheek (or what she likes to say give me some love). Then just lately its been kisses on the forehead, cheek, and a slap on the ass. Then just a few days ago she was walking away as I was leaving and she said it pretty loud I love you and I said me too. She did not like that at all. She wanted me to say it back and I just couldn't. So I don't know what's next or how to deal with a person that is so expressive when I'm not.